So I was just wondering to myself....after reading yet another saga of love between a couple who could not fulfill their dreams of being together after family intervention in the Indian society way.

The thing I was thinking was... how much difference does it actually make to real life. These lofty dreams and ideas of passionate love and forever. Nothing is forever. Isnt that what life brings to our minds every time we endeavor! We live the best we know how. We deal with each day as it comes. If today you love someone and then you cant be with them....well too bad!! Thats just the way life goes.
As the years pass the memories fade away, when one day you try to recall it all seems like a distant dream. No matter how strong the feelings. Life moves on. Memories fade. New ventures are under taken!! Thats the best part. Humans are far more resilient than they think, its how you choose to move on.
Some get involved in work , some make new familes while some decide to brood for life!! So what I really came to realize was that life moves on and love,life it all is subject to change. If at a certain point you feel you cannot live another day without someone. Its not true. Life will go on. The sun will rise. People will breath.
Its just that you will have to take the first step and it will all be easy to deal with...sometimes...you dont have to deal with it either, just go with the flow and the tide will take you with it. Or I should say, if you dont fight the current,you will not sink and will eventually reach your own shore!

The best part is.....every one does...they might not like where they reach....but they reach none the less.